It's Going to be an Eggcelent Summer

Dearest Libby,

Summer is officially here in Seattle.  The sun is shining (finally!), the temperatures are hitting the 90s, and the kids are all out of school.  Its rainy and grey here so much during the year – people always want to know how we stand it. But I tell you: it’s for these next three months, during which Seattle is the most glorious city. 

With June out of school, the pressure is on as an involved parent to get her out of the house and into as many activities as possible.  Why is that?  I remember my early childhood summers being spent at home, riding my bike, playing with toys, eating homemade popsicles (my mom literally just froze juice in tupperware containters and we were too dumb to know the difference).  And I've read that a little boredom is good for kids - it forces them to develop their imagination. But now, if you don’t have your kid in music, art, and x-game training by the time they are walking, somehow, you are behind.   I am, of course, so very skeptical of it all, but not so much that I haven’t fallen victim to the pressure: hence, June’s Teeny Tennis Camp.

This is a “camp” filled with 3, 4 and 5 year olds who are “learning” to “play tennis.”  It’s a week long activity, with daily sessions that last 45 minutes.  Let me give you the list of reasons why this whole thing is ridiculous.

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My Frozen Confession…

Libs,

So, has Dash seen Frozen?  Cause if not, he's like the only kid out of the womb who hasn't.  Not that I'm encouraging you take your 2.5 year old to a movie.  Cause TV is bad for kids. 

We have this rule in our house: No TV during the week. It sounds harsh, doesn’t it?  Old-school, almost.  But, I love this rule.  In my mind, it’s genius.  Why? Because, it falsely assures me that I am the only one breaking it, that Tygh obeys it without question, and that, therefore, June is not getting too much TV.

I know, I know.  It's not very Seattle-ish of me, or enlightened.  I SHOULD be reading her endless books, challenging her little mind with playful puzzles, playing dress-up to encourage her imagination (and fashion sense).  We should be one of those families who hides the TV behind moveable artwork, or better yet, doesn’t have a TV at all.  But at the end of a stressful workday, it’s all I can do to make her brush her teeth.  So, more often then I’d like to admit, TV wins.

Enter yesterday: long day, longer commute, pornstar boobs (missed a pump session) and a screaming, witching hour baby.  And while I was wrestling with making us sandwiches for “dinner,” June casually asks if she can watch Frozen. For the 100th time. 

I didn’t even put up a fight.

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